Peoplehood

Who are your people?

While some people are motivated to connect to specific types of programs or activities, others are less interested in the activity itself and are instead looking for ways to find their people.  This theory is explored in the book, “Bowling Alone,” which explains that some people will go bowling because they like bowling, while others go bowling because they want to be with the other people who are going. YourJewish hopes to help you find your people to “do Jewish” with, whether that be based on age, gender, stage of life, or any other shared aspect of identity.

Why is it important to find your people?

Creating Safe Space

Many people feel much more comfortable being with people who identify similar to themselves, finding greater personal safety in such settings. Whether it be as a family with children of a certain age, gender identity, or someone who is brand new to town, we can find comfort in being with others like ourselves. These safe spaces enable personal growth and connection.

Addressing loneliness

One of the first lessons we learn in Torah is that it is not good for humans to be alone. Many people live alone and are comfortable being by themselves. This is not the same thing as experiencing loneliness or living in isolation.  Unfortunately, loneliness is one of the biggest problems that people face today and we hope to address it by helping people create deep and meaningful relationships with others through participating in a small group that meets consistently over a short period of time.  

Get out more

Many people avoid leaving the comfort of their home for a variety of reasons. We fail to give ourselves permission to explore interests that may not include the other primary person in our lives. It can be scary to put yourself out there, even if you know that you are lacking connection with others. We invite you to take the leap to try something new and imagine the possibilities of adding new experiences and relationships into your life.